Our 20-Year Experience as a Domestic Couple: The Highs, Lows, and Getting Fired
Each of our four positions taught us valuable lessons about the dynamics of working closely with employers and adapting to varying expectations. From managing large estates to working in smaller family homes, the highs of working with respectful employers were only matched by the lows of facing burnout and being dismissed.
Our first job at Allington Castle. How we started out as a domestic couple.
Our journey began 20 years ago with a role that taught us the foundations of working as a domestic couple. It was here we discovered the importance of teamwork, adaptability, and building trust with employers. Read more here.
Our second job working for a billionaire in London
Transitioning to a high-profile household was challenging. We had to navigate demanding schedules working as a domestic couple in Britain's most expensive house. This role helped us develop new skills and gain insight into ultra-high-net-worth households. Read more here
Our third job in a formal household
As the live-in under-butler/cook, this position meant wearing white gloves and suits. It required professionalism, with a focus on protocol and standards. Attention to detail was crucial in this very formal traditional household, and we learned about silver service, even though we didn't enjoy it much. Read more here
Our forth job in a friendly informal household
Moving on to working as a housekeeper/cook and handyman in a more relaxed household was a refreshing change. Here, we built close relationships with the family while balancing the less formal atmosphere with high-quality service. Read more here
Getting fired from our last job
This job was bittersweet, as our time there ended under challenging circumstances. We went from domestic couple to estate manager and cook/housekeeper/carer.
The experience highlighted how quickly things can go wrong. Read more here
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